DETROIT — A group accused of planning to kidnap Gov. Gretchen Whitmer determined one member was “too damn soft” and kicked him out, his lawyer says.Pete Musico’s distaste for violence was among the arguments made Friday at a hearing to reduce his bond from $10 million. His lawyer, Kareem Johnson, said Musico’s anti-government statements and armed presence at a recent protest at the state Capitol were protected under his constitutional rights.Ultimately, Jackson County District Court Judge Michael Klaeren agreed the original bond was “grossly excessive” and reduced it to $100,000. While concedi…